It is my mission to help as many coaches and coaches-to-be as possible remember who they really are. Completely from their core and independent of all beliefs and expectations from outside, so that they can coach their ideal customers based on their soul mission and natural expertise.
Because I'm sure that too your head
is overcrowded. A knot of thoughts that come from all the responsibilities, beliefs, expectations and judgments that you have accumulated in your life.
As a child you were a sponge for your environment. You took everything you saw, heard, felt and experienced as true, interpreted it your way (everyone wears their own glasses) and beat you up.
Now the voices of the past regularly pass by in your head. Your mother who advises you not to take a new, exciting step, because 'are you being careful?'
Your father who thinks you 'shouldn't be like that', which makes you shut your mouth again and do what is asked of you.
And that teacher who thought that you could never sit still, which makes you still feel uncomfortable when you are distracted during a long meeting.
Over the years, those voices have become YOUR voices.
👉 YOU judge yourself so your parents don't have to,
👉 YOU take responsibility from others, because you are good at that,
👉 YOU are convinced that you are not good enough for… whatever you want to achieve
👉 YOU expect the impossible from yourself because you still feel like you have to prove yourself
You have taken on a lot of work there!
And on the other side there is your heart, where peace, trust, love and freedom reign. A heart that knows exactly what you need.
If you give your heart space, you discover who you really are and what makes you really happy. I believe that everyone has innate talents and can thus positively influence the lives of others.
Because who you think you MUST be in your head to others is not who you really are. And everything gets tangled up there.
You feel something, but there comes that annoying voice again that says something completely different. And if your thoughts are tugged back and forth often enough, it is understandable that you cannot get it out!
But you've come to a point where you're done! That head can be emptier, more in the background and your heart can be given more space.
You have done your own research, read some books, watched webinars and talked to people close to you.
You notice that those old trusted people feel further and further away for you. Where you used to be in alignment with them, now it feels like you don't understand each other anymore.
You don't like the topics they talk about and your vision of life is completely different! This creates friction, because every time you come up with a question, you get an answer that you already know. You want to know more.